The Story of Jim

"The story of Jim.

There is a man who loves to eat very much. In his mind, he no longer wants to have a diet, he feels tired of people's suggestions that he needs to have a diet. He loves food more than what the society dictates him to do.

Jim is a kind and a generous man. Despite being a big man who loves eating his food, he still shares his food with everyone who wants. He offers food, he does not let other people to feel awkward asking for food. At times, he buys food for two and when he can't consume all, he gives the other one to some stranger or street people. He is Jim.

But what the society sees is that Jim is just a lazy man who eats and eats a lot of food. Being so big, the society does not consider the life of Jim. What they see is what they get, and that is how they judge. The society does not consider the inner core of a man, the society just looks at what they see in you. What they see as Jim is different of who really is Jim.

This is why Jim is sick of people's comments. Jim is happy in his life, he still continues living the life he wants. He still eats everytime he wants. He does not follow the society's rules. Because he knows that whatever he may does, the society will still judge him. Jim accepted his reality and just wanted to live for as long as he does the good things in life.

Thank you Jim. I am one of those people you shared your food then. Many times you offered me your food and so I wanted to live my life too, determined to be financially stable, and be helpful to people too. I salute you, Mr Jim. You are my inspiration. At the time of your death, I was the only one in your house then. Your last words had me starstruck until now.

Mr. Jim's last words say: Do what makes you happy. I know too much intake of food would lead me to death. But I'd rather eat everything I want before I die, than to suffer and not to eat everything I want while living a long life. Choose happiness, not misery.

This is the story of Jim narrated by his adopted street child.

Thank you very much."


This is not a true story. Just a story created for my other blogs. I just wanted to share this with you as a separate article. Thanks. :)

Soulmate

What does it mean to have a soulmate?
Does it happen when two souls meet?
In search for one, what are the chances
You'll meet the precious one, not the hoaxes.

They say when you share the same crap, you found her
Does it need to be the same forever?
What if the real thing isn't just similarities?
But loving similarities and respecting differences.

Or the question is, is there really a soulmate?
One whom you can share your entire life with
Like meeting her is the most meaningful in your life
Like the person is meant to be your wife.

If there is really a soulmate, why not to everyone?
Why does somebody doesn't meet her someone?
Why should one has to grow old alone?
If soulmate just really exist in the zone.

Or let's say soulmates really do exist
But doesn't mean it's a love to cherish
Maybe a friend, bestfriend, or lover
That comes in life for a page or a chapter.

What does it mean to have a soulmate?
Does it happen when two souls meet?
To whatever it may mean, one thing is certain
Our souls feel good to meet precious people again.

Why I Love South Korea

Annyeong haseyo! :)

South Korea is one of the places I want to travel and discover someday. In the Philippines, there is a growing population of Koreans, even on national televisions the Koreans are having a good show. The show business industry of South Korea is also having a market share in the Philippines. Filipinos may not be good at Korea's language, they still enjoy listening to their songs. There are many reasons to love South Korea. Why do I love South Korea?

Travel

Someday, hopefully soon, I want to step into the 'Land of the Morning Calm' and enjoy the interesting life of Koreans. Korean dramas are giving me an expectation of enjoying the life in the cities of South Korea. First place I want to go to is the capital city, Seoul. The night life seems very fun and alive there. One spot in Seoul that interests me is the Namsan Tower where the people brings a metal lock and locks it in that place. I wonder why, but one friend of mine mentioned to me before that the purpose of the lock is for couples to vow to never separate. I would love to put my own lock with someone there. :)

One more place is the Jeju Island, a beautiful place to stay. In Korean dramas I could see couples having their honeymoon in the place. Is it that romantic in Jeju Island? Interesting.

I also want to take a look at the Kirin Art School. The setting of my favorite Korean series - Dream High.

Here is a good promotional video of Seoul I watched years ago:

Someday, if favored, I would want to go to all those places and to some other beautiful places in South Korea. And if I go there, I would definitely try many kinds of food. :)

Food and Cuisines

Kimchi, a spicy korean dish, is one popular food in the Philippines as influenced by Koreans. My father is fond of making his own Kimchi as well, which is kinda similar to that of the Koreans. At times, he just buy imported Kimchi products. I already had a taste of the said Kimchi, and it's good! :)

Known korean dish is Bibimbap. The dish consists of rice and served with seasoned vegetables on top with additions of beef and newly cooked egg. A food chain in SM Clark, a mall in the Philippines, is serving the said dish and there is where I first encountered it. My sister also likes the dish as she cooks her own Bibimbap in the kitchen and our family is delighted with the greatness of the dish.

A korean franchise has opened in the SM Clark, the Caffe Bene. The franchise is serving korean varieties of food from cakes to latte to bingsu. The bingsu is definitely a must-try! The cold dessert has variety of ingredients such as the fruits you want, then the milk, syrup, ice cream topping, condensed milk and of course ice. Other desired flavors can also be incorporated if you will make personalized bingsu. I find this food similar to Philippines' Halo-halo.

Korean community is expanding in the Philippines. In Angeles City, you can find a place called Korea Town because of many Koreans living there. Korean restaurants are also growing in the city. I want to try the samgyupsal and other food cuisines offered by these restaurants. The Korea Town is said to exist within the so-called Friendship Highway outside the area of Clark.

The last food I will mention is very famous in Korea, for having it's own special day during November 11 (11/11) and is observed to be similar to Valentine's day. I really love this cookie stick, known as Pepero, a chocolate-filled flavored snack in South Korea. I have known about this Pepero day where people give Pepero to show affection to other people. How sweet, as sweet as the Pepero.

I would want to taste some more of the Korean cuisines! And it is best eaten while enjoying the Kpop industry. :)

Show Business

First of all, I am not into Kpop industry. But just because I am not into it, I won't be a fan.

I like Kpop. I may not be like idolizing too much of the Korean artists, but I have thorough knowledge of the industry as it is famous in the Philippines. The music, the dramas and movies, the artists - very awesome!

Korean Music. I don't understand Korean language but as far as music is concerned, I sing korean songs. (I may not be good at singing, that doesn't mean I won't sing :D) My favorite song is about a birthday, the title is 'Winter Child' as sung by Suzy Bae (Miss A) in a series. When I likely korean songs, I am looking for their english meanings so as to understand its meaning. But at times, I just sing though I don't understand. :D Well, as said by Mr. Kang in the series Dream High, "Music is a universal language. They (Korean&Japanese) understand each other through music." Though I don't understand them, so far I already memorized the songs though with inaccurate lyrics. For the record, though I'm not a solid fan of Super Junior, my favorite music video with its song is the No Other.

Korean Series and Movies. Korean dramas are very famous in the Philippines. In every TV channel, there are like 3-5 series being shown everyday. Korean series has been an additional flavor to the national television. And no doubt, the series are very good as they continue in being aired, when a series end, another one will air. Filipinos already accepted the Korean culture, and many are already into it. Generally among the teens, they love watching series and dramas from Korea. And at times, they already have watched it before even coming to national television. The internet greatly helped the filipinos in coping with Korean culture. I, personally, have favorites of course. Among the series, I love Dream High the most and others are Secret Garden, Baker King, etc. The first series I have watched I guess is Full House starring Rain and Song Hye Kyo. When it comes to movies, I will never forget Miracle in Cell No. 7, the story of societal injustice to a man with disability, a father who greatly loves his child named Yesung. In Youtube, I have watched a lot of Korean movies uploaded there, all with english subtitles. :)

Korean Artists. Ask a teenage Filipino and he will give you a name of his favorite Korean artist(s). My personal pick (my 'bias' as called by fans) is Suzy Bae, I knew her first in the series Dream High. She's a member of a Kpop group, Miss A, but she got very popular in korean series. Another notable acting performance of Suzy is in the series Big and on the movie Architecture 101.  But my first korean crush is Song Hye Kyo who starred in Full House, next is Jeon Ji Hyun who starred in My Sassy Girl and Windstruck. I also know other artists namely Kim Soo Hyun, Kim Hyun Joong, Psy, Dara, IU and many more. Some other Kpop groups such as 2NE1, SNSD, Super Junior, SS501, UKiss, etc.

Though she's just my second female korean idol, Jeon Ji Hyun is still the best actress I have ever watched and idolized for I have watched almost all of her movies, my favorites are My Sassy Girl and Windstruck,  and watched her series with the Philippine title My Love From The Star. Another notable movie is Il Mare. She is incredible I should say, and very beautiful.

Dara is a Korean artist from 2NE1 who started her career in the Philippines, and I have been a fan of her even before she became famous in South Korea.

UKiss is the first Kpop group I witnessed performing live on-stage in SM Clark. They have a little influence on why I like Kpop music.

There are a lot of great people in Korea that I want to meet. It must be good to have Korean Friends.

Korean Nationals

I already said this a couple of times in this article that the Korean population in the Philippines is growing...a lot. I also mentioned the so called Korea Town in our city. In our school, there are also Korean students and some have became my classmates already. And sometimes, in our neighborhood, I could see some Koreans walking and I just greet them with 'Annyeong!' :)

It's great to have Korean friends. I am happy to say that I got part of our university's buddy program for having a month-long interaction with Koreans. For a short period time, I enjoyed having to talk with the Korean nationals.

To mention, they are from Korea Nazarene University in collaboration with Holy Angel University to have the Koreans an English Learning Program. As a part of the program is the HAU students having interactions with the Korean students.

A Certificate of Appreciation for being part of the program

First impression: They are cheerful. When I first entered the room where the Koreans are, I see everyone smiling and having fun. And on the subsequent days, I learned they are very friendly and cooperative. I also find them very cute :)

I am very pleased when I got my haircut and many of them are saying that I am cute. That was the first time Korean people made compliments to me and it's a pleasure.

I am surprised and happy to know that they love Philippine Mangoes as well as the dry mangoes. I didn't expect them saying a huge 'WOW' when we entered the room with mangoes. To one of my friends among them, she mentioned one particular product which is a mango chocolate and as a token of friendship, I gave her 2 packs of the said Philippine product. Hi Seu! :)

Yes, one month went too fast, but in that short period we have made friendships with one another. We became friends on Facebook for continuous communication and interaction.

And in that short period, I could say, I will miss them...very much. I am very honored and glad to meet the Korean buddies and hopefully we could meet each other again someday.

Here is a picture of our Korean friends with a tour guide in a vacation trip to Pangasinan visiting the Hundred Islands, photo credit to 오한나 (Hanna Oh).

A group picture of our Korean friends with a tour guide.

I hope when I travel to Korea, I could meet them again. :) I love South Korea.

South Korea

I love the country with the fact that I have not been there. I already know many things that excites me to go to that country. What more if I experience life in South Korea? I will surely love the place more than how I love it now.

Having Korean friends, reaching out on their culture, enjoying their industries, loving their food and cuisines, and seeing the beautiful views of South Korea in photos. I cannot say that I am just a wanna-be tourist of their country, obviously I am in love with South Korea. I want to learn more about South Korea! :)

What else do I want to learn about South Korea?

First of all, I want to learn Korean letters or the 'Hangul'. I might have deeper appreciation of the Korean culture when I learn this since I can personally understand when I read Korean texts. Learning the 'Hangul' includes writing the korean letters and reading them with korean language. So it involves learning their language as well. This will be hard, but I hope I can do it. So far, I have limited words once I encounter Koreans I can greet them Hello, Goodbye, Thank You, and Happy Birthday. (Annyeong haseyo, Annyeonghi gaseyo, Kamsa Hamnida, Sangil Chukha Hamnida) I greeted one Korean today saying 'Sangil Chukha Hamnida' :) I learned from the Koreans the korean word for cute which is Gwi Yeo Wo, when they praised me as cute as stated earlier. Credits to 이슬이 (Seullee Lee) for the spelling of Gwi Yeo Wo. :)

Another is reaching further of their culture. Culture is very interesting to learn as it involves the norms, customs and tradtions of people. I knew that in Korea, Valentine's day during February 2014 is celebrated with women giving chocolates/goodies to men and a month later they will celebrate White Day when men will be the one to give something to women. Another tradition is mentioned earlier, the Pepero day.

Anything else, it will come along the way. I would learn more with friends.

How did I know stuffs about South Korea?

'Experience is the best teacher.' As I encounter Korean stuffs in life, I am happy to learn about them. When Korean songs got famous, I gave it a try to listen and sing as well. When the Korean series was first played in national television, I gave time to watch it. In life, you just have to be open to learn more things that are new to you. Learning is a continuous process, we don't stop learning.

Learning is also part of friendships. I have numerous friends who are great fans of the Kpop industry and they almost had adopted some of Korean traditions. Of course, being a friend, they may talk about it when you talk with them. There comes learning, sharing of learned stuffs to people. I could say that most of my knowledge about Koreans are greatly because of my friends.

The Korean friends mentioned earlier in this article are a little shock when I mention to them things I know about Korea. It's not that I boast that I know them, but to show them I appreciate their culture long before they came to the Philippines. :)

Some other sources to learn is the internet, where most of the information exist and have access immediately. :) Knowing more stuffs makes me love South Korea even more. :)

South Korea, I vow to meet you someday. :)

*Everything written here are personal ideas and experiences. I may not be accurate at some information but everything is with the best of my knowledge. To readers, this is something personal, and I hope you would love Korea the same as I do when you have an encounter of it as well. Photos with no credits were taken from Google Images.*

Thank you for reading!

They Never Met At All

He's got that round shape yet he's hot
People on earth rise when he's out
This big hot ball was named the sun
Tell me, why is he adored by everyone?

One smaller shiny ball exist in the dark
People usually rest and refrain from work
This amazing ball was named the moon
Tell me, why is he adored by everyone?

No one seems to love gazing at the sun
The pain in the eyes like stroked by a gun
But people loves the morning greeting
And working under the sun's heating

Everyone seems excited gazing at the moon
Like meteor showers are falling too soon
That phenomenon people wants to see called eclipse
Looks like two people touching their lips

The irony is the two are catching up with each other
They want to meet and lit the Earth with their power
But the twist of fate tells the world:
When one's not there, the other must do its job to the world.

The sun rises on east and falls in west
In the night the moon works at its best
At some part of the world it's sunny
The other part is seen as dark but shiny.

People's long distance relationship talks on phone
They find it crazy to have different timezone
They don't realize how hard it will be every time
The sun and moon is separated forever in daytime and nighttime.

I believe the sun loves the moon so much it hurts
He works harder in giving light to the earth
So people could receive the light they needed
And don't ask too much light from the moon they had.

The worst part is they never met at all
They can't see, when one rise the other fall
They wander who lights the world when they're not around
They don't know another ball gives light to surround

The sun loves the moon so much
So separated they can't even touch
When one hides the other lit
He died every night to let her breathe.

Why does it have to be this way
For fate to decide the night and day
But is this better to never meet at all
Than meeting once but separated the two balls?

Kakayanin

Heto yung panahon na halos mabaliw ako, yung iniisip ko parati na baka hindi ako makapasa, baka bumagsak ako kahit nag-aral naman ako at baka ano kaya mangyari sakin pag di ako pumasa.

Panahon na naman ng Qualifying exam sa kurso namin. Bakit ba kasi every summer eh parating may qualifying exam, normally kapag mag-graduate na dun palang magkakaroon ng ganito. Heto tuloy ako medyo nababaliw na sa kakaisip. Although alam ko overthinking lang naman at pinoproblema ko ang isang bagay na di naman nag-eexist - ang failure ko.

Nangangamba lang naman kasi ako eh, baka bumagsak.

Last summer, yung qualifying exam namin isa ako sa nakaabot sa matataas na scores sa isang subject. Ayun lumakas ang tiwala ko na kakayanin ko maka-graduate sa 5-year course at tumaas pa ang pangarap ko na mag-Top sa mismong board exam. Oo, pangarap ko maging topnotcher sa board exam kahit alam kong mahirap.

Pumasa naman pala ako noon, nag-top pa. Anong pinoproblema ko at dinadrama ko pa dito? Eh kasi noon dalawang exams lang, yung isa basic pa. Eh ngayon iba ibang field na ng accounting ang pagtetest at medyo nahihirapan ako.

Sa mga oras na to, nakapag-review na ko sa lahat ng subjects na yon. Exam na lang ang hinihintay ko. Kagad ako natapos sa review at nagpahinga ako ng dalawang araw. At sa araw na to nagreview na naman ako, pero habang nagsasagot ako eh pumapasok sa isip ko ang probability na di ako makapasa.

Pero alam ko naman overthinking lang ito.

Kung pagbabasehan ang exams ko during the semesters, mataas naman mga scores ko. Yun nga lang syempre ilang subjects lang ang focus sa sem. Sa quali eh lahat.

May tiwala naman ako sa sarili ko. Alam ko maipapasa ko. Sana nga lang hindi overconfidence ito. Wag naman sana masayang yung mga araw na nagreview ako, 3weeks din yun ah.

So anong pinaglalaban ko dito? Alam ko naman palang papasa ako?

Wala lang. gusto ko lang ilagay ang naiisip ko. Sana maiwan na sa post na ito lahat ng pangamba ko pansamantala. Sana sa exam na. Maisip ko eh papasa ako. :)

Kung mabasa mo man ito, until April 23. Please pray for me na makapasa ako sa exam. Bonus na yung magTop. Salamat ah :) Kakayanin!

See

The sight of one is getting blinded
By the fears of a painful tomorrow
The sight is lost, eyes were surrounded
By the past that brings her sorrow.

What can I do to make her see
The ways to truth and nothing else
I could guide her and walk with thee
Remove the shadows her heart tells

She sees the future dark and cloudy
The sun must shine right in her eyes
I'll bring her light when I'm ready
Make her think i'm not of the guys.

I'll make her see, restore her senses
High hopes is waiting for her
Rewrite the past for future tenses
It's the start of us together.

In Her Place

One cold night, while watching a Pokemon movie in my newly bought laptop, my friends messaged me through text to visit a former classmate who has a serious illness in the hospital. There were two groups, I got confused to whom I shall come with, though for the same purpose. So I came with the group who will come early. Then i'll just go with the other group after visiting the sick to watch some movies in theater.

I woke up at 7 am today, and stayed in bed until 8 am. Just a normal day, bathe early, went out of the house early, came at the meeting place early. Though I skipped breakfast today.

We arrived at the hospital at 11 am, it was just me and my friends who are visitors of my former classmate. Just a normal visit, we came in for her, sadly we were not able to talk to her for she's still unconscious from an operation. I didn't know what is the operation at the moment. We got busy talking and reminiscing of the moments when we were still classmates with our former classmate who is sick, we also took a look at her pictures. It hurts to see a very happy woman lying in the hospital bed with a very serious illness. But we believe that she can make it through, she can fight, she can survive.

I can feel that our visit was just in time, just a normal visit and we are there to see our former classmate after an operation. We were wishing she wakes up before we leave.

I can hear the mother of my friend, so proud of her daughter and talks about how grateful she is to have a very kind daughter. She reminisces the childhood days of her daughter, remembers the wants and needs while she was young, and suddenly cries when she looks at the hospital bed.

In my mind, I was thinking. I hope she's well until we leave. I think I can't take to see a situation where the time of non-survival arrives. So I really wish she'll be fine.

At almost 12 noon, the nurse came to feed the sick. Suddenly after feeding, blood comes out of the mouth. I have no idea what's happening. Until the nurse called for other nurses, then the mother went near and told the sick "Paynawa na ka ne, magkasakit naku". (Take your rest now, it's hard for me to see you like that)

Suddenly, there's a little panic. We prayed for her at the moment while the nurses are doing some health check. We sincerely pray for her. It's the mightiest weapon we have. When it's getting crowded in the room, we went out to give space for nurses and doctors.

Until they called on the relatives of the family, even all the friends and professors of the sick. The doctors went out and talked to the parents of the sick. I knew that the mother is wiling to give up the fight already, and the father made the hardest decision and the hardest to accept which is to give up her daughter. I saw it all. I can feel something strange in me since it's my first time to witness such scenario. We were outside, and the parents are also out of the room, I can see and feel the grief they carry in them. 

Then we entered the room again, they were praying the rosary and we joined. The priest also came and performed the anointing of the sick. Then the parents went in, talked to their daughter they are willing to give up to the Lord. As I see the parents crying while talking to the sick, I CRIED. Both eyes dropped the tears.

It is unusual for me to cry. Many things are entering my mind as the tears drop from my eyes, maybe I could just write another article for that.

Soon, several classmates and friends and relatives came in for the sick. So crowded that we already create noise and disturb other rooms. So everyone just went out of the area and just come back next time.

The normal visit became a teary-eyed visit, I wasn't able to eat breakfast and lunch today. I was standing for about 4 hours, starving. Our plan to watch a movie pushed through, but I didn't join them as I choose to go home. But it's okay.

We left the hospital feeling hopeless for her, now the hope revives as she continues to fight for survival.

I'll just continue praying for her. And for everyone who will be able to read this, please speak a silent prayer for the sick people in the world. 

What if, I was the one, in her place?