My Ideal Woman
When I was a
child, I just wanted a playmate who can be my friend. Later, I had my best
friends in school. Growing older, I experienced having a girl friend. Now that
I am mature enough, I will be dealing with an ideal woman.
I have dealt
with my peers through the ages, I have knew what I like and what I dislike with
people, and this makes me discover what I am looking for in a woman, an ideal
woman.
I believe in
love at first sight, it is because the very first thing we can see is the
physical appearance of the person. But the love I have will develop stronger as
I get to know the person. I will undergo on the courting-the-girl stage, there
I could know if she has the attitude that I would love too. Such attitudes like
kind-hearted, generous, appreciative of the gift of life, loves to learn and
explore, visionary, and a habit of smiling, are just some of what I find
attractive in a person. Thus, one description of my ideal woman is a woman who has
an attractive attitude inside her attractive appearance.
I would love
to have someone I can argue with our problems and yet, at the end of the day,
such arguments will make our relationship stronger. A woman who deals with the
things that can make a relationship closely tied. Another description of my
ideal woman is a woman who sees our relationship to last until we get old and
sees no hole to escape.
The woman
who can bring out the best in me, the woman who can inspire me to show my
potentials, the woman who can make me feel what true love is, the woman who
enjoys each other’s company, are all the same woman. I describe my ideal woman
as a woman who is given to me by God to change and fix me to how well He wanted
me to be.
I may
describe my ideal woman as perfect as I want to, I still do not expect to meet
the exact person. I want a woman who is as likely as I have described, and the
descriptions she does not have are the things I can possibly change in her.
Most of the
things I mentioned are the things I want to give my ideal woman, it is not just
her being ideal, but also me as her possible ideal man. The descriptions of an
ideal man she likes that I do not have are the things she can possibly change
in me. Above all, it is an ideal love that will make us together as well as
change us for the better. I describe an ideal love as a love of two imperfect
people, perfectly in love with each other.
"Dream your ideal woman, find it in your imagination; dream of
an ideal love, find it in reality." - Fernando Zablan Jr.
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