Tenses of Love

Past Tense: In Love. Present Tense: Hurt. Future Tense: Moved On.

I have once loved a woman in my life, the feeling or true love. I've been with her, he had chances to be together and even made me smile always. Yes, the feeling of being in love is very delightful, it carries the day so easy. You have good vibes, always positive on things and bright ideas comes to your mind. Of course, ou say you are inspired by your special someone and it's true.

However, there are times that happiness is absent. The absence of happiness in love is the hurting we feel. They say, when you are hurt, you truly love the person. Yes, it's true. It just means you don't want to lose the significant other.

There will come a time that something between you and your significant other will come to an end. That's the worst feeling, most likely to teenagers. But, the pain you will feel can bring you into some realizations.

"To feel hurt is to live everyday with a dead heart."

You just can't get rid of it, the hurt is there for as long as you love the person. And, if you can see no more possibilities, you'll just have to move on. Moving on is the hardest part in love.

"Moving on is walking on the road while looking at your back."

It is very hard to move on from the recent love affair. You may be grabbing a lot of opportunities but you still want the past to come your way. What's good in moving on, you'll have realizations in life and you get more mature to know who will you love the next.

Going to the future tense, so now we're on the future tense which is "Moved On". Let us revise my first statement.

Past Tense: In Love. Past Tense: Hurt. Present Tense: Moved On.

So you have moved on now, you no longer feel the extreme love that you felt before. The significant other you had before is now considered a friend again.

"If you truly love the person, the feeling of love doesn't fade, it stays."

Time will come that you will realize that you no longer feel the extreme feeling, you just feel you love her. Well, the love you have for her will really stay in your heart, simply because you care.

"Malalaman mong Moved On ka na kapag nakita mo sila at masaya ka para sa kanya at inaalala mo na sana wag siya saktan ng kasama niya.."

If there ever comes a time that you'll meet halfway and that person is with her significant other, you will just feel happy for them.

"You'll know you have moved on when you see the one you love with the one she loves, and you feel happy for them but still wishes that the one she loves will not hurt the one you love."

"Malalaman mong Moved On ka na kapag nakita mo sila at masaya ka para sa kanya at inaalala mo na sana wag siya saktan ng kasama niya.."

If "Moved On" is the present tense now, then what's the future tense? Let us revise it again.

Past Tense: In Love. Past Tense: Hurt. Present Tense: Moved On. Future Tense: Love Again.

Someday in your future, you'll find the one who is meant to be for you. The partner in your life will come your way. That will be the right time to love again and this time, you are now mature enough to love.

It really feels good to be in love. We cannot escape it once we feel it, the only way is to feel the love given to us by our Almighty Father, our God.

Pain becomes a part of our life not to ruin things, but to make us decide how well we can love. Love itself is what matters. Love.